All Women want is infinite and unlimited, sometimes even women themselves doesn’t know exactly want they want, of which make them uncertain as confusing but nevertheless no matter how strong willed or weak willed a women is, they all have soft spots.
Everyone thought women can be obtain through material things, this concept is also right because there’s no one in this world who doesn’t want to possess want thing or the other, but trust me, a material possession can’t keep a woman heart, no matter how much money, jewelries or things you bestowed to her, if she didn’t love you, then It’s definitely not you. Apart from money, sex even a better standing, have you ever thought of what women truly wants? This is a mystery I’m about to unravel.
Women do not want you to agree with them all the time. No one really wants that. Most people want to be able to have conversations and challenge their own thinking in order to be open to new ideas and the same holds true for women. Women don’t want a doormat that we walk all over, women want someone that knows himself, knows how to use his voice. You’re allowed to speak your mind, women wants someone that can correct them when they are wrong, someone that they can rely on, if you agree with a women every time, she will take it for granted and get even more spoilt and disastrous, you have to be someone with your own opinion! Yes If you love someone they have your “mumu bottom” (weakness) but you should have a bottom line, indulge them but also discipline when necessary.
Women wants understand, truthfully this is not really a mystery but it’s definitely not every men out there that can give it, women wants to accepted for who they are, regardless of the situation, you must be able to understand the reason why she’s doing that particular thing, though women might be rational sometimes but even there’s a saying “there won’t be rainbows without a big rain” of course there have be something that triggered their irrationality, as a man that’s something you need to find out before handling out a sentence, because whatever you say in that moment may intensify or quell down the tantrum.
Women wants to feel safe, a woman needs to know that if you get upset or frustrated, you’re not going to punch a wall or start becoming verbally abusive. That you are in control of your emotions and you are not ruled by them. because that is unsafe. Women, at least high value women, look for a man that when there is a disagreement, he is able to address it with compassion and communication, where you both look for a solution instead of just trying to be right.
Women also wants to be sure that not only their partners body, but also their heart belongs to them, this is very important, whether she’s the jealous type or not, every woman wants to be the only one in her man’s heart, women are very sensitive, if there’s a crack in the relationship trust me, it’s bound to fall, No matter what don’t give a woman an insinuation that you are cheating, my dear, don’t even joke about it, it’s very vital and women will always assume the worst.
Women are not as confusing as they seems, with this knowledge you can be rest assured that your woman is really yours, it’s left for you to venture hard and keep the treasure beside you.