Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship. It is a form of courtship, consisting of social activities done by the couple, either alone or with others.
“The purpose a relationship is to find your better half, the person that makes you whole, your ‘everything’. It a pity that in the recent years, dating relationship is no longer seen as a path that leads to marriage, teenagers now view a dating relationship as a relationship in which they can blow off steam, technically it’s not all, but some teenagers grew up in a crude environment with no one to doctrine their manners leading to false belief and improper thought. Thus can’t be blame on them but on the society.
Granted falling in love can’t be timed and it’s upto fate, but being in a relationship definitely needs some after thought. Here are what it takes to be in a relationship
Money or cash aside, acceptance is one of the first thing to consider, being in a relationship means that your partner not only accepts you the way you are, but also inspires you to be the best version of yourself. Accepting someone for who they are also means accepting their flaws and imperfections, before jumping into a relationship, even if the feeling and chemistry is there, you need to first access the person, are you willing to accept them for who they are?. I’ve witnessed a relationship where they started quite good, but after some months, the girl started complaining about the guy having too many friends, granted they ain’t new found friends but the old ones that she knew of before they started dating, but only starts complaining after they got in deep, this is clearly “shouting hot!! After the knowledge that it’s hot”
I can tell you this for a fact, it’s people that you love most that always test your patience, but if we did really love them, we must endure their tantrums and their unreasonable demands, surely there are something that they will touch our bottom lines but as long as they ain’t manipulatively scheming it can be forgiven.
Courtesy demands respect, we all have our egos,being in a relationship with someone you have to bequeath respect to them, no matter how small or insignificant they are, respect is reciprocal, if you want to be respected you need to hand it out too, respect of the body, mind, complex. You shouldn’t bully or backstab someone you are in a relationship with, that person at that particular time trusts you the most, and everything you shared together must be confidential.
Kiss and tell, this is probably one of the most shameful act, no matter what kind of relationship you both are in. You should involve in a sexual act with someone and still tell to others, it’s not only shameful, It also taints prestige and dignity.
These are some of the most compulsory things to take in measures before jumping relationship, Though sex is not compulsory but people get in a relationship because of attraction and chemistry so it can not be ignored, partners can explore one another body as long as it was permitted by the other, but nevertheless a relationship is not based on sexual activities because no matter what you’d definitely see someone better than your partner in that act.